The fly fishing community is full of characters – old and young, salty and green, brave and good weather enthusiasts. And then, to further discern, we have our various fly-throwing disciplines. It is the small trout, the steel-headed masochists, the warm-water fishermen who refuse to take the shrimp, and the housing fanatics. Sure, it’s unfair to generalize to our good community, but we’re an easy target group. These generalizations and characterizations of fly fishermen are especially helpful when you are in the market for a new fishing companion. Like romantic relationships, there are friends who are eternal spiritual twins and there are toxic relationships that should never have been reunited, in the beginning.
To decipher the need for happy marriages, we need to consider what bad relationships might look like.
Your good-weather friend who only goes fishing in the summer – when there is no cloud or wind – should probably not be thrown into a boat with your friend who is fully convinced that low pressure systems have more the best. bite.
Your little brother, who just caught his first solar fish in flight last Tuesday, probably does not need to go with you to fly to downtown Islamorada tarpon with Rob Fordyce – or any Keys tarpon guide for this issue. Forgive me buddy, next year!
Your competitive girlfriend and your friend’s newcomer (who also happens to be competitive) can go well on a camping trip and on your weekend fishing trip. But they may not, and may become excavated.
The older gentleman who sits around the fly shop telling fascinating stories from ancient times can get on your nerves when you are halfway through the cruise and he still talks about the salmon fly bite of ’86.
To be a mature fisherman in the market for a fishing partner, you need to make your own inventory.
Is your boat bag organized? Well, you might get annoyed if your new fishing buddy can’t find his top spool and has to borrow your nipples for every new fly.
Are you a competent rower / suppressor? Most importantly, is your new fishing friend? You will not be allowed to be disappointed by being on the platform all day if you never ask if they knew how to armchair.
Are you punctual? If your version of “meet on the ramp at 8:00 am” is usually 8:15 pm, you will have to agree to your constant delay. Just say 8:15 and mentally shoot for 8.
As in romantic relationships, fishermen must finally acknowledge their partner’s shortcomings. Boat fishing is a symbiotic environment where you need your partner. Have you tried sitting on a shore or driving just down the river? Not very effective…
As fishermen, we have all experienced an inconsistent day of expectations and atmospheres. Can throw the dwarf for the whole day off. It can also make a long fishing trip painful. There are so many factors that one cannot control while fishing – the weather, the bite, the broken padlocks, the faulty engines. This shit happens more often than it should. So control the factors within your power. Your fishing partner is first and foremost.
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